Travel Tuesday Happy Hour Podcast - Exploring the World Through the Eyes of Passionate Travelers

How luxury hotels changed the way we travel

Episode Summary

In this episode, we have another amazing couple the Jacksons. Teisha is a frontline worker, mother, and Brooklyn native. Keynon is an athlete, battle rapper, teacher, Preacher, and Harlem native. Check out the show on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ukbOey5H0AU

Episode Notes

In this episode, we have another amazing couple the Jacksons. Teisha is a frontline worker, mother, and Brooklyn native. Keynon is an athlete, battle rapper, teacher, Preacher, and Harlem native.

Check out the show on Youtube:
https://youtu.be/ukbOey5H0AU
 

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Keynon
https://www.instagram.com/kjackpr/
Chelsea
https://www.instagram.com/tee112/

 

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Jacqueline Jackson
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Episode Transcription

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We had this amazing hotel

 

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If I could have stayed in that hotel.

 

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24, seven.

 

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I'm telling you,

 

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he wanted to go out and venture out,

 

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but we, they were even thinking

 

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we were celebrities, that

 

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he was a basketball player

 

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and he was lying about who he was.

 

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And I was like,

 

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Oh, that's why he liked it.

 

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Because he was a he was a no.

 

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He was the one. He said, Jamaica.

 

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She said, cancun, really?

 

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I said, Jamaica.

 

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Are you still

 

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I feel like we had the most fun

 

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in Jamaica.

 

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So, okay, let me ask you this.

 

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What's the question again?

 

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The most memorable. Memorable.

 

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Okay. Yeah, sorry.

 

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It is our honeymoon.

 

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A welcome to chat with Tuesday

 

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Happy Hour.

 

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where we  interview

 

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dope people doing things

 

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from around the world.

 

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And today

 

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we have an amazing episode for you.

 

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But first,

 

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I want to introduce my queen, my partner

 

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and my everything.

 

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Tell them who you are, please.

 

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I'm Jackie Atomics Travels.

 

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Peuge Benjamin's fiancee.

 

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Amazing, amazing.

 

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And we have an amazing guest and his

 

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and his amazing queen.

 

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Like, let me tell you.

 

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Let me tell you this young man.

 

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this young man right here.

 

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I've see.

 

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Coming from

 

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the the growth from Pittsburgh.

 

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You know,

 

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he was a preacher

 

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on the team playing basketball.

 

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Let me play these two.

 

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Got basketball experience in common.

 

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But I'm gonna let y'all introduce.

 

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I'm gonna let y'all introduce.

 

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I'll tell us who you are.

 

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And if you don't mind, tell us

 

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what y'all do.

 

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My name is Teisha Jackson.

 

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I am a clerk

 

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in the emergency room

 

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at Presbyterian Hospital.

 

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Front line workers.

 

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Thank you for your service, and thank you

 

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And that's why.

 

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That's why

 

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she doesn't want us to go remote

 

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our

 

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okay.

 

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Okay.

 

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How you doing out there?

 

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My name is Keynon

 

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Jackson, also known as Pastor

 

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Key, also known as K Jack

 

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That just means

 

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the Keynon Jackson is the teacher.

 

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I am a ninth grade

 

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English composition

 

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teacher who Pastor Key

 

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As you as you all may know already,

 

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I am a pastor of the Shrine

 

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Baptist Church,

 

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the Pastor of the Sharon

 

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Baptist Church in the Bronx, New York,

 

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and lastly,

 

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KJack is because I'm also an All Star Battle Rapper.

 

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So you know, those three things,

 

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not a couple of

 

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woven together make up

 

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a partial partial on me.

 

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Listen, listen.

 

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Don't let us humble these too humble

 

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like kings and queens fool y'all now.

 

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You know, this queen holds down a king

 

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and the king

 

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hose down is queen like no other.

 

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And so we we aim to model after you all.

 

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And I appreciate how

 

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y'all exemplify

 

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where black love looks like for the community.

 

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And so if you don't mind

 

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a little bit background

 

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see where y'all both from?

 

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I'm from the only place that matters.

 

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But she's from I'm from Brooklyn.

 

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Born and raised in Brooklyn.

 

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Yes, in Brooklyn. Represent.

 

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Let me let him know.

 

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Brooklyn runs things. Let's go.

 

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All right.

 

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Out in West Chester, White Plains, so,

 

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yeah, we don't

 

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we don't request just we we just leave.

 

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So where you from?

 

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And that only matters.

 

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Why did you

 

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question is the only place that matters?

 

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Oh, okay.

 

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No. From Harlem. Harlem.

 

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Harlem. Get

 

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the I don't realize.

 

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Harlem, you a little different

 

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as though we all let them rock,

 

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you know, she lives in Harlem.

 

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I live in Harlem, but I'm a Queens girl.

 

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You know what I mean?

 

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I lived in  Queens for a while, too.

 

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So.

 

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Okay, so you were employees to me now

 

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yeah. I just.

 

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I just recognized something and realize

 

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don't kill me,

 

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you know,

 

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because I just came

 

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from playing basketball.

 

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My ring is in my book bag.

 

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Yes. Oh, no.

 

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You good? You good?

 

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You don't want to see where I look.

 

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I got to you.

 

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Everybody already know now.

 

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Here is a fact.

 

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That's a great point. Yes.

 

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Let's deal it.

 

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Everybody else needs to know,

 

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because you don't see it is literally

 

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I just came from playing best.

 

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I know you good. You good.

 

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So how did y'all me?

 

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We have a mutual friend named Kona.

 

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He grew up with Kona in church.

 

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I worked at Kona for about five,

 

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six years.

 

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So, yeah, she was a matchmaker.

 

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Thank you. Goanna.

 

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Yeah. Look at the.

 

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Wait, wait, please. There's only.

 

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There's only three sides to the story.

 

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Okay, let's hear some

 

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she's not lying,

 

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but she's living out the most

 

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the most poignant part

 

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of that whole scenario.

 

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Well, that's

 

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why you dig into the Yang

 

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and you got a complete where,

 

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you know, fill in the blanks.

 

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What is it that I knew your family way

 

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before you come

 

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on, you're missing

 

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the most poignant part.

 

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So let's.

 

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Lola, look now.

 

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No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

 

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Don't do it.

 

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Don't let him be the preacher right now.

 

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It's a great show that tells you tell.

 

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It's the most poignant part, right?

 

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So you like

 

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me, so come on.

 

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I want an hour at work.

 

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And Kawana was on her Facebook,

 

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and she happened to scroll

 

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past a picture of her and Keynon, and,

 

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you know, jokingly outside.

 

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He's cute. Looked me up.

 

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You know,

 

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you play around with your homegirls.

 

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She really did it.

 

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So yeah.

 

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Here we are, jokingly.

 

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Yeah.

 

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Listen, listen.

 

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I'm an experiment,

 

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so you should be happy

 

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that jokingly, like,

 

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I'm asking for a friend type of scenario,

 

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you know what I mean?

 

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So now we got to clear it, right?

 

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He is not an experiment.

 

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Me being on online

 

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dating was an experiment.

 

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You, I love are not an experiment.

 

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You are the blessing between

 

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my experiment.

 

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Okay.

 

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Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.

 

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She just smoked your boots, bro. I'm

 

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I'm a little ra.

 

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I'm a little rock now.

 

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Now is what he does.

 

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I'm a little rock.

 

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Yes. True.

 

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So what sparked your individual

 

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like desire to drop

 

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from me?

 

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Since I was young,

 

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my parents exposed me to traveling,

 

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so I always had that

 

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interest in traveling.

 

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Right now,

 

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I feel like I have the desire

 

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to see so much more.

 

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I was limited to the Caribbean

 

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because my family's from Barbados,

 

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but yeah, I just love traveling

 

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now and seeing different parts

 

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aware of how people live.

 

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You know,

 

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for me,

 

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my, my,

 

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my family travel, quite honestly,

 

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within the United States.

 

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So I have quite a few states

 

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check off my list.

 

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But never without the country other than

 

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I think I went to Canada.

 

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Yeah, I went to Canada.

 

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My freshman year of college

 

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because I

 

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went to

 

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I was dating a young lady

 

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who went to Buffalo

 

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University of Buffalo.

 

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So one day I went out to visit her

 

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and she and her friends were like,

 

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Oh, we're going to be going to Canada.

 

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I was like, Okay, just go.

 

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What? I was right there. Yeah.

 

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It wasn't until it wasn't

 

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until I actually hooked up with TI where

 

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I had

 

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I got a passport for the first time, so

 

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she upgraded.

 

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She had a little smile on her face.

 

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You got upgraded with a passport?

 

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She did. She upgrade.

 

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She was like, Nah, hold up.

 

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Hold up with me.

 

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You need a passport? Yeah.

 

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I was like, Okay, well,

 

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let's let's let's do it.

 

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So now I have a few stamps

 

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because I'm her.

 

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I see.

 

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So it's a passport.

 

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I upgraded her to global entry well,

 

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maybe, you know,

 

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I like to bring that up, take that flier.

 

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But let me

 

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let me also say,

 

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I went on a few, like quite a few cruises

 

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before I met her.

 

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So I was out of the country,

 

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but she didn't need a passport back then.

 

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You need it with your birth certificate

 

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and your ID,

 

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and then you were good

 

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to get on a cruise.

 

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But I will say

 

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getting a passport

 

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was definitely an upgrade.

 

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So I definitely think

 

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English and passports again

 

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changes, you know,

 

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because at the end of the day,

 

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it's like those steps

 

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kind of solidify that you've been around,

 

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right?

 

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Like those stairs,

 

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like when you get

 

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when you like

 

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get that stamp on your passport

 

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or you're like,

 

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oh, this is this

 

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is it for as different

 

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as doing your I.D.?

 

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Because you got to be like,

 

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mister, can I get your passport?

 

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You know what I mean?

 

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And so

 

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that that gives you, as a traveler,

 

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a different feel.

 

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Right?

 

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And, you know,

 

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I think like

 

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what was your first trip together

 

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like because

 

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she upgraded you to

 

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the passport was a year ago

 

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Barbados to get them to travel

 

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grandmother. That's natural.

 

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When he said the first trip we went on,

 

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we're Matos,

 

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he said the first trip we were

 

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at now now I'm God, it was Barbados.

 

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I'm getting good points right now.

 

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I thought

 

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that that was our first trip

 

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of the country.

 

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He didn't expect our first trip would be

 

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no.

 

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Orlando, Florida.

 

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Oh,

 

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basically, she she told me once

 

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we started

 

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eight issues like, look,

 

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I take my daughter on a trip every year.

 

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You're welcome to come with us.

 

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Nickelodeon. Yeah.

 

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And so she was like,

 

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we're going to Nickelodeon Studios.

 

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And I was like,

 

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You want me to go with you

 

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to Nickelodeon Studios

 

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with your daughter?

 

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I'm with it now.

 

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I'm definitely with it.

 

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And I'm a big kid.

 

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So while she was sunbathing,

 

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I was out playing with Kyle in the pool

 

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and making sure we would get

 

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and get along

 

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with the slime

 

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and all that on the Thomas stuff.

 

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So, yeah, so so you took her

 

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so she can

 

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he can do

 

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the things she didn't want to do,

 

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you know? Exactly.

 

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Total opposite.

 

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When I go on vacation

 

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out of the chance to relax and enjoy

 

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my piece he's able to turn up,

 

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have all the fun, and I, I can't have it.

 

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So he's a very,

 

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as she probably loved that

 

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and she needed. Oh my goodness.

 

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Oh, always your daughter

 

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when you took the first trip all together

 

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six or seven.

 

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She's waited

 

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so long and it's amazing wow.

 

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Oh.

 

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So you,

 

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you create a great

 

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first impression for her.

 

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You look you get a slime, right?

 

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You don't have all the candy and case

 

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and don't tell mom

 

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that I gave you all this junk food.

 

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You just tell her we have one. Exactly.

 

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But but the thing is, I mean,

 

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I didn't have

 

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I had to have to be anybody

 

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by myself as well.

 

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So it's not like

 

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I was putting on a show for rent.

 

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I literally am like this.

 

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I mean, mind you, this was

 

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eight years ago at this point.

 

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Yeah, but I'm like,

 

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I'm still the same way

 

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as long as my knees hold up.

 

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So you got to call

 

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bone is dead out of the.

 

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Yeah, that's amazing.

 

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So what was the first international trip

 

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where you had to use that?

 

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She said Barbados. Bye Birdie.

 

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So what was that like?

 

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When I listened

 

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when my grandmother was alive, I'm like,

 

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you get the approval somehow.

 

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You get to meet her.

 

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And that was like something on my heart.

 

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So, yeah. And then what happened?

 

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And then what?

 

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And then I became a resident of Barbados,

 

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where he really fell in love with him

 

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and called him the locals.

 

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And now he has

 

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your local

 

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oh.

 

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Let me ask you guys this.

 

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What have you learned about each other

 

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through traveling?

 

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Can I go forth yeah.

 

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All right.

 

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So this was actually a point of tension

 

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in our in our relationship

 

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because we we because we went to

 

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because we went to Barbados,

 

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it's my first time meet our family.

 

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I thought that she was being different

 

00:13:05:23 - 00:13:08:03

and she was.

 

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And it was

 

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because she wanted me to impress them,

 

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but she wanted me to impress them.

 

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With a side of me that doesn't exist.

 

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So I'm like,

 

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I have to be mean for them to like me.

 

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And so you know, this purge,

 

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I'm loud, I'm ex, I can be extra.

 

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So with that being said,

 

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I'm having fun with her own goals.

 

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Her dad,

 

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we all talk in,

 

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and then I start laughing and I'm like,

 

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and sometimes my laugh is how quite,

 

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quite boisterous to say the least.

 

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And so she pulled me to this baby.

 

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Gotta calm down.

 

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I'm like, no, talking about

 

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this is like you being

 

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you like to relax

 

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a little bit like your grandma family.

 

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I want you to.

 

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I'm like, you don't want me to what?

 

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I'm. I'm very confused here.

 

00:14:01:24 - 00:14:04:19

So I had to learn that

 

00:14:06:17 - 00:14:08:00

her her

 

00:14:08:00 - 00:14:11:07

wanting me to impress them

 

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kind of went beyond who I was.

 

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And it took a couple of times

 

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before she said, yo, like, they love you

 

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so who you are and like,

 

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let me just let you be you.

 

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But it was literally a point intention.

 

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So I learned that very early on

 

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in our in our travels because.

 

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And she actually sent me

 

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you actually remember what you sent me on

 

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the meme about.

 

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If you survive,

 

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if you don't know a real love is.

 

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And so you survive and argue, are you on?

 

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It's true. So yeah, yeah.

 

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And no,

 

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we definitely had we had

 

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we had those with gusto.

 

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That's the negative thing I learned.

 

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But I don't know

 

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if I want to say negative,

 

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but I guess that's the easiest way to

 

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relay that message.

 

00:15:01:03 - 00:15:04:08

But I know what was meaningful to her.

 

00:15:04:16 - 00:15:07:03

So if I have the ying to the yang,

 

00:15:07:17 - 00:15:08:22

it could seem negative,

 

00:15:08:22 - 00:15:09:21

but I understood

 

00:15:09:21 - 00:15:11:21

what was truly meaningful to her

 

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and that's how I feel. So.

 

00:15:13:16 - 00:15:14:20

Okay, yeah.

 

00:15:14:20 - 00:15:16:20

That's that Caribbean,

 

00:15:16:20 - 00:15:18:18

British Island, Caribbean.

 

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You should be a certain way

 

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kind of thing.

 

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And she wanted to project that on you,

 

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but it's great to both get to a point

 

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where she's like, Okay, just be yourself.

 

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You got to be yourself anyway.

 

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That's is going to be okay right now.

 

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Let him do him now.

 

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I don't need to say anything

 

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I think I need see my mom.

 

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Maybe

 

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me ma, when you watch this.

 

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Thank you so much.

 

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So for me, like I mentioned earlier,

 

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we're kind

 

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of, like, opposite,

 

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so I had to learn that one a trip.

 

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I have to do some things that he like,

 

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and I expect him

 

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to do some things that I like

 

00:16:00:03 - 00:16:02:20

because it was 101 accruals.

 

00:16:02:20 - 00:16:04:16

I got annoyed

 

00:16:04:16 - 00:16:08:15

I wanted him to lay in the solarium.

 

00:16:08:21 - 00:16:11:05

The solarium. Solarium. Right.

 

00:16:11:05 - 00:16:12:16

Oh, are you going to come relax me?

 

00:16:12:16 - 00:16:15:07

Because I know that's not fun to me.

 

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And I was just so angry.

 

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He wanted to go turn up at some club,

 

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and I'm just like,

 

00:16:22:23 - 00:16:24:12

really?

 

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Yes.

 

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I had to learn that

 

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because we are opposite.

 

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We have to

 

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give each

 

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other, and

 

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I give him space to do what he likes.

 

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He'll play ball.

 

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Whatever he goes

 

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goes off for a couple of hours.

 

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We come back we do something.

 

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I like one,

 

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then I'll do something he like.

 

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So I have to learn that

 

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we don't have to be together.

 

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24, seven on a trip.

 

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Like he can go do what he likes

 

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and do what I like.

 

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Then we come together

 

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so she likes the sunsets.

 

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I like to sleep.

 

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So it's one of those things

 

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like sleep later, he get angry at me

 

00:17:02:13 - 00:17:03:17

you know?

 

00:17:03:21 - 00:17:06:21

So we got to balance out seeing the sun

 

00:17:06:21 - 00:17:09:05

set versus the sleep.

 

00:17:09:09 - 00:17:10:05

So

 

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but I think

 

00:17:11:12 - 00:17:14:06

when we when we, we as you said

 

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I'm go ahead.

 

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You says the sun sets the right

 

00:17:17:18 - 00:17:18:21

sunrise mobile.

 

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I like Bo,

 

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but I will wake him up for sunrise and he

 

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is initial reaction is like,

 

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all right, let's go like

 

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this first thought

 

00:17:28:14 - 00:17:29:14

and this is why I don't even

 

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I don't even get bothered

 

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by the first thought anymore

 

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as long as the second

 

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thought is all right.

 

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As long as that second door

 

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matches what I want to do, we do

 

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is say that.

 

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But that part

 

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that part.

 

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So what has been your you guys most

 

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memorable moment traveling together

 

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is hands down, hands down.

 

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We I think we had to sing.

 

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I'm almost positive.

 

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All right.

 

00:18:00:02 - 00:18:01:24

Let's let's do this here aside.

 

00:18:01:24 - 00:18:04:10

You make him

 

00:18:05:12 - 00:18:06:24

know which one you say.

 

00:18:06:24 - 00:18:09:01

I was going to say Mexico, Ronnie.

 

00:18:09:11 - 00:18:11:12

Well, well, yeah, I like the honey.

 

00:18:11:12 - 00:18:14:04

We you don't really care for the I

 

00:18:14:09 - 00:18:16:03

we had this amazing whole

 

00:18:16:03 - 00:18:17:23

if I could have stayed in our hotel.

 

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20 47.

 

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I'm telling you,

 

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he wanted to go out and venture out,

 

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but we were even thinking

 

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we were celebrities

 

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that he was a basketball player.

 

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He was laughing about who he was.

 

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And I was like,

 

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oh, that's why he liked it,

 

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because he was a he was a no,

 

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he was that one.

 

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He said, Jamaica. She said, Oh, really?

 

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I said, Jamaica. I used to

 

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I feel like we had the

 

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most fun in Jamaica. So.

 

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Okay, let me ask you this.

 

00:18:46:16 - 00:18:48:07

What's the question again, Mo?

 

00:18:48:07 - 00:18:51:00

What's the most memorable? Memorable.

 

00:18:51:00 - 00:18:52:24

Okay. Yeah, sorry.

 

00:18:52:24 - 00:18:55:17

It is our honeymoon in Jackson.

 

00:18:55:17 - 00:18:57:11

Do not change your answer.

 

00:18:57:11 - 00:18:57:22

No,

 

00:18:59:15 - 00:19:01:17

no, no more fun.

 

00:19:01:22 - 00:19:02:11

You

 

00:19:03:19 - 00:19:05:10

know, it is the most memorable,

 

00:19:05:10 - 00:19:06:15

but is not the most.

 

00:19:06:15 - 00:19:08:18

We had the most fun in Jamaica. Sex.

 

00:19:08:18 - 00:19:10:22

Now, that is absolute

 

00:19:10:24 - 00:19:13:02

well, let's let's let's hit can cool.

 

00:19:13:02 - 00:19:15:21

And then we go to Jamaica.

 

00:19:15:21 - 00:19:17:02

So

 

00:19:18:14 - 00:19:19:23

when was the honeymoon?

 

00:19:19:23 - 00:19:20:06

Yeah,

 

00:19:20:06 - 00:19:21:09

because our honeymoon

 

00:19:21:09 - 00:19:24:19

and we stayed at a resort called black

 

00:19:26:13 - 00:19:28:04

oh, yes.

 

00:19:28:04 - 00:19:29:18

Palace gifted that to us.

 

00:19:29:18 - 00:19:30:23

We're going to break it down.

 

00:19:30:23 - 00:19:33:00

Jason, I don't.

 

00:19:33:04 - 00:19:33:11

First of all,

 

00:19:33:11 - 00:19:35:23

I don't know how they gifted it to us.

 

00:19:35:23 - 00:19:36:19

Not guys.

 

00:19:36:19 - 00:19:38:22

When we walked in, literally,

 

00:19:38:22 - 00:19:41:02

everybody thought I played for the NBA,

 

00:19:41:17 - 00:19:42:06

hands down.

 

00:19:42:06 - 00:19:44:00

Like, it was like, what team do you play

 

00:19:44:00 - 00:19:44:12

when I'm like,

 

00:19:44:12 - 00:19:45:20

I don't play for,

 

00:19:45:20 - 00:19:49:05

like, six, 700, like £220.

 

00:19:49:05 - 00:19:51:18

Like, I'm 65, two, one, five,

 

00:19:53:20 - 00:19:55:22

you get a little extra.

 

00:19:55:22 - 00:19:59:11

But at that time I was 65 to 85

 

00:19:59:11 - 00:20:01:04

because I lost so much weight

 

00:20:01:04 - 00:20:03:18

trying to pay for our wedding.

 

00:20:04:05 - 00:20:06:03

I was feeling all about

 

00:20:06:03 - 00:20:07:01

like we didn't have,

 

00:20:07:01 - 00:20:08:09

we didn't have any outstanding

 

00:20:08:09 - 00:20:09:12

bills whatsoever.

 

00:20:09:12 - 00:20:12:02

We paid for flat out, like,

 

00:20:12:20 - 00:20:13:14

here's another thing.

 

00:20:13:14 - 00:20:16:03

Before you travel with your spouse

 

00:20:16:03 - 00:20:17:18

leading up to that wedding,

 

00:20:17:18 - 00:20:18:20

do your entire

 

00:20:18:20 - 00:20:20:06

best not to take out

 

00:20:20:06 - 00:20:22:04

any loans for your wedding

 

00:20:22:04 - 00:20:24:08

because and this is just a PB

 

00:20:25:13 - 00:20:26:03

piece.

 

00:20:26:12 - 00:20:27:14

Yes, yes.

 

00:20:27:14 - 00:20:30:11

Eight Because we had

 

00:20:31:05 - 00:20:32:21

we had more fun on the back

 

00:20:32:21 - 00:20:35:16

in not having to pay things back.

 

00:20:35:24 - 00:20:37:23

So I wound up losing

 

00:20:37:23 - 00:20:39:11

quite a bit of weight,

 

00:20:39:11 - 00:20:40:10

but it was

 

00:20:40:10 - 00:20:41:10

I gained it back

 

00:20:41:10 - 00:20:43:01

within about six months or whatever.

 

00:20:43:01 - 00:20:44:07

But long story short,

 

00:20:45:19 - 00:20:46:16

my parents gifted.

 

00:20:46:16 - 00:20:47:19

I don't know how they did

 

00:20:47:19 - 00:20:49:08

what everybody thought

 

00:20:49:08 - 00:20:51:03

we were celebrities

 

00:20:51:17 - 00:20:54:02

I met two hockey players

 

00:20:54:02 - 00:20:56:04

literally like it were lawyers.

 

00:20:56:04 - 00:20:57:16

People who owned businesses,

 

00:20:57:16 - 00:20:59:11

own businesses, own businesses,

 

00:20:59:11 - 00:21:01:02

own businesses.

 

00:21:01:02 - 00:21:02:19

Yeah. We looked it up.

 

00:21:02:19 - 00:21:04:12

It was a five star

 

00:21:04:12 - 00:21:07:13

out of five Diamond five Diamond Resort.

 

00:21:08:10 - 00:21:09:23

I requested something.

 

00:21:09:23 - 00:21:11:00

They didn't have it.

 

00:21:11:00 - 00:21:12:05

I think they went and go.

 

00:21:12:05 - 00:21:14:09

They went and bought it.

 

00:21:14:09 - 00:21:14:23

No,

 

00:21:15:24 - 00:21:18:07

no, no.

 

00:21:18:07 - 00:21:19:19

They went nuts.

 

00:21:19:19 - 00:21:20:18

She says

 

00:21:21:10 - 00:21:22:16

I don't see it on the menu.

 

00:21:22:16 - 00:21:23:14

She's like, They don't have

 

00:21:23:14 - 00:21:25:04

I just ask, just ask it.

 

00:21:25:04 - 00:21:26:14

So it was like, Hey,

 

00:21:26:14 - 00:21:28:13

do you have X, Y, and Z?

 

00:21:28:13 - 00:21:29:24

She knew like, no,

 

00:21:29:24 - 00:21:31:20

we don't have it in this restaurant.

 

00:21:31:20 - 00:21:33:06

We have it in the other restaurant

 

00:21:33:06 - 00:21:35:14

on the other side of the resort.

 

00:21:35:14 - 00:21:36:07

And I was like,

 

00:21:37:10 - 00:21:38:23

she was like, Is that all right?

 

00:21:38:23 - 00:21:40:06

Don't worry about it.

 

00:21:40:06 - 00:21:42:16

I also asked for calamari

 

00:21:42:16 - 00:21:44:09

in that particular restaurant.

 

00:21:44:09 - 00:21:45:14

They did not have that.

 

00:21:45:14 - 00:21:47:18

There we have it at the other restaurant.

 

00:21:47:18 - 00:21:50:13

So we both like. Yeah,

 

00:21:50:15 - 00:21:51:12

what about?

 

00:21:51:12 - 00:21:53:15

And we got invited by another group

 

00:21:53:22 - 00:21:56:03

to eat with that restaurant that night.

 

00:21:56:12 - 00:21:59:07

So they literally 20 minutes later

 

00:21:59:07 - 00:22:01:09

come back with our orders

 

00:22:02:11 - 00:22:03:00

and was out.

 

00:22:03:00 - 00:22:04:07

We went to the other restaurant

 

00:22:04:07 - 00:22:06:22

to get a really nice

 

00:22:08:08 - 00:22:11:05

dining and that's dining.

 

00:22:12:00 - 00:22:14:00

What else would come down to the ME

 

00:22:14:09 - 00:22:15:23

and I'll never forget her name.

 

00:22:15:23 - 00:22:17:10

Lucinda,

 

00:22:17:21 - 00:22:19:06

my drink ready

 

00:22:19:06 - 00:22:21:09

she'll have some some shrimp

 

00:22:21:14 - 00:22:24:02

in whatever order like

 

00:22:25:08 - 00:22:26:01

you want.

 

00:22:26:01 - 00:22:28:11

You want that little loosened up?

 

00:22:28:15 - 00:22:29:11

Sure. I have her.

 

00:22:29:11 - 00:22:32:10

All right. So she went for the most part,

 

00:22:34:03 - 00:22:34:23

like I don't really

 

00:22:34:23 - 00:22:36:08

like to eat on vacation.

 

00:22:36:08 - 00:22:37:15

I don't like to do anything

 

00:22:37:15 - 00:22:39:15

but turn it like that's my thing.

 

00:22:39:15 - 00:22:42:06

I, I don't care about any of that

 

00:22:42:14 - 00:22:44:23

because I'm out of the country.

 

00:22:44:23 - 00:22:45:23

I don't really get to

 

00:22:45:23 - 00:22:46:12

well out

 

00:22:46:12 - 00:22:47:17

as much as I would like

 

00:22:47:17 - 00:22:50:06

to because of my status and whatever.

 

00:22:50:12 - 00:22:51:07

And, you know,

 

00:22:51:07 - 00:22:53:13

I just try not to as much as possible,

 

00:22:53:13 - 00:22:55:00

but when I'm on vacation,

 

00:22:55:00 - 00:22:56:15

that's my time in the well.

 

00:22:56:15 - 00:22:57:23

And so

 

00:22:58:23 - 00:23:00:10

we'll get to we'll get to it.

 

00:23:00:10 - 00:23:03:02

But I do love lounging by the pool

 

00:23:03:05 - 00:23:04:19

that that is my rest.

 

00:23:04:19 - 00:23:07:13

My my rest is lounging by or in the pool.

 

00:23:07:13 - 00:23:10:01

I literally can spend 12 hours straight

 

00:23:10:08 - 00:23:12:12

in a pool with vacation.

 

00:23:12:12 - 00:23:15:09

I am my like nonstop.

 

00:23:16:08 - 00:23:18:20

And so we were, we had a butler.

 

00:23:19:18 - 00:23:20:04

They, they,

 

00:23:20:04 - 00:23:20:24

they got to know

 

00:23:20:24 - 00:23:23:08

my parents got to butler to them.

 

00:23:23:17 - 00:23:25:15

But we walked in, so

 

00:23:25:15 - 00:23:26:08

and this is the last thing

 

00:23:26:08 - 00:23:27:04

I'll see a bottle of wine

 

00:23:27:04 - 00:23:27:10

because I,

 

00:23:27:10 - 00:23:28:20

we can literally talk about this

 

00:23:28:20 - 00:23:29:12

all the time.

 

00:23:29:12 - 00:23:31:13

I said it is the most memorable.

 

00:23:31:13 - 00:23:33:06

We walked in

 

00:23:33:06 - 00:23:36:02

and we got a late, late on Sunday

 

00:23:36:02 - 00:23:37:11

because we left right after church.

 

00:23:38:15 - 00:23:41:13

And when we got there

 

00:23:41:13 - 00:23:42:23

the guy was like, Oh,

 

00:23:42:23 - 00:23:43:17

this is your butler.

 

00:23:43:17 - 00:23:46:12

We like we mean, what do you mean butler?

 

00:23:46:22 - 00:23:48:03

He was like,

 

00:23:48:17 - 00:23:50:08

your butler.

 

00:23:50:15 - 00:23:51:05

And as I said,

 

00:23:51:05 - 00:23:52:08

what does that do that

 

00:23:52:08 - 00:23:54:19

mean, what are you going to do?

 

00:23:54:19 - 00:23:56:20

And he was like, Do you want

 

00:23:58:11 - 00:24:00:06

excuse me,

 

00:24:01:15 - 00:24:02:15

you know, basically, like,

 

00:24:02:15 - 00:24:03:06

whatever you want.

 

00:24:03:06 - 00:24:03:14

And I was like,

 

00:24:03:14 - 00:24:07:07

I so t t was walking behind us

 

00:24:07:07 - 00:24:09:08

with the bags, you know, we were tired.

 

00:24:09:08 - 00:24:10:03

It was it was late.

 

00:24:10:03 - 00:24:11:12

It was almost like midnight.

 

00:24:11:12 - 00:24:12:14

She's walking with the bag.

 

00:24:12:14 - 00:24:13:09

And I'm

 

00:24:13:09 - 00:24:16:04

literally energized because I'm like,

 

00:24:16:04 - 00:24:17:01

this is crazy.

 

00:24:17:01 - 00:24:17:09

This day,

 

00:24:17:09 - 00:24:18:11

I've never seen anything

 

00:24:18:11 - 00:24:20:17

that looks so beautiful in my life.

 

00:24:20:17 - 00:24:21:19

And I'm late

 

00:24:21:19 - 00:24:22:22

and we walk next to each other.

 

00:24:22:22 - 00:24:24:22

I said, what do you mean by anything?

 

00:24:24:22 - 00:24:25:11

It's like,

 

00:24:27:02 - 00:24:28:18

you know, if you ask for something,

 

00:24:28:18 - 00:24:30:14

I'm the person you go

 

00:24:30:14 - 00:24:32:23

that's a that's what he says.

 

00:24:32:23 - 00:24:33:23

Whatever you can think of,

 

00:24:33:23 - 00:24:35:13

if I can get it for you, I will.

 

00:24:35:13 - 00:24:38:21

I said, you have a long night.

 

00:24:38:21 - 00:24:40:04

You were never explosive,

 

00:24:40:04 - 00:24:41:18

and now it's different.

 

00:24:41:18 - 00:24:42:18

So

 

00:24:43:08 - 00:24:44:14

so when it was all said and done,

 

00:24:44:14 - 00:24:45:11

we walked into that.

 

00:24:45:11 - 00:24:48:06

We walked into the room

 

00:24:48:17 - 00:24:50:20

I mean, absolutely gorgeous.

 

00:24:51:20 - 00:24:54:12

Anyway, we walk into the room

 

00:24:54:12 - 00:24:57:20

and I immediately go to the refrigerator

 

00:24:58:01 - 00:24:58:13

I open

 

00:24:58:13 - 00:24:59:06

the refrigerator

 

00:24:59:06 - 00:25:01:11

is a bunch of drinks in the air.

 

00:25:02:15 - 00:25:05:00

And so I looked at him.

 

00:25:05:00 - 00:25:06:04

I say, Anything.

 

00:25:06:04 - 00:25:08:06

He goes, Yes, anything.

 

00:25:08:06 - 00:25:09:08

And I was like, All right,

 

00:25:09:08 - 00:25:10:19

take all of that out.

 

00:25:10:19 - 00:25:12:06

Except for

 

00:25:12:06 - 00:25:14:22

I just want a full a fridge full of.

 

00:25:14:24 - 00:25:16:02

But like,

 

00:25:16:02 - 00:25:18:03

it was another another type of beer.

 

00:25:18:12 - 00:25:19:04

And then I

 

00:25:19:04 - 00:25:21:05

said, Babe, what you want in this fridge?

 

00:25:21:05 - 00:25:23:12

She goes, Baby, what are you doing?

 

00:25:23:12 - 00:25:24:05

Don't do that.

 

00:25:24:05 - 00:25:24:22

It's rude.

 

00:25:24:22 - 00:25:25:21

I was like,

 

00:25:26:02 - 00:25:28:00

how do you say, how is it rude?

 

00:25:30:20 - 00:25:31:07

But she

 

00:25:31:07 - 00:25:31:19

also was

 

00:25:31:19 - 00:25:32:19

behind us and didn't

 

00:25:32:19 - 00:25:34:21

hear the full conversation that we had.

 

00:25:35:03 - 00:25:36:05

So she's thinking

 

00:25:36:05 - 00:25:37:12

and I'm just walking in there

 

00:25:37:12 - 00:25:38:10

being a tirade,

 

00:25:38:10 - 00:25:39:21

trying to be extra because,

 

00:25:39:21 - 00:25:41:24

you know, we got a butler and I'm like,

 

00:25:42:05 - 00:25:43:23

I don't like this. I don't want that.

 

00:25:43:23 - 00:25:46:17

I just want I just want the

 

00:25:46:17 - 00:25:48:01

right and there was another beer.

 

00:25:48:01 - 00:25:48:21

I can't remember that.

 

00:25:48:21 - 00:25:50:21

I don't drink coffee.

 

00:25:50:21 - 00:25:52:01

And then she

 

00:25:52:01 - 00:25:54:15

she said something about I think she had

 

00:25:55:08 - 00:25:56:07

ginger ale.

 

00:25:56:07 - 00:25:58:21

Here's I no problem.

 

00:25:58:21 - 00:25:59:15

She looked at him.

 

00:25:59:15 - 00:26:02:08

He said, we what? Yeah.

 

00:26:02:08 - 00:26:03:00

I said, babe,

 

00:26:03:00 - 00:26:04:13

he literally said, we can have

 

00:26:04:13 - 00:26:05:23

whatever we want

 

00:26:05:23 - 00:26:07:14

as long as he can do it for us,

 

00:26:07:14 - 00:26:08:20

too, right?

 

00:26:09:08 - 00:26:10:23

Yeah. So.

 

00:26:10:23 - 00:26:14:00

So, yeah, that night Buffon LeBlanc,

 

00:26:15:05 - 00:26:17:16

please, if you have we got one.

 

00:26:18:03 - 00:26:19:01

We all know that.

 

00:26:19:01 - 00:26:21:05

We don't know if you can afford it.

 

00:26:21:05 - 00:26:23:18

Please. Do it. Yes. Oh, my God.

 

00:26:23:18 - 00:26:24:20

It's so fun.

 

00:26:26:22 - 00:26:27:17

Jamaica.

 

00:26:27:17 - 00:26:28:22

So we're

 

00:26:28:22 - 00:26:30:03

we have this

 

00:26:30:03 - 00:26:32:23

group call and love and travel up

 

00:26:33:18 - 00:26:35:20

is three couples that

 

00:26:36:14 - 00:26:39:11

we well sometimes for sometimes yeah.

 

00:26:39:21 - 00:26:41:08

We travel together.

 

00:26:41:08 - 00:26:44:06

So we try to do two trips, either

 

00:26:44:07 - 00:26:47:07

one with the kids or one with the dance.

 

00:26:47:21 - 00:26:50:07

So we went to Jamaica.

 

00:26:50:07 - 00:26:53:10

We just adults and we had a blast.

 

00:26:53:21 - 00:26:56:20

We went in sandals Ochi here

 

00:26:57:22 - 00:26:59:07

and so anybody that doesn't know

 

00:26:59:07 - 00:27:01:14

that some sandals and little wheels

 

00:27:01:14 - 00:27:04:09

and when I tell you,

 

00:27:04:09 - 00:27:05:18

my God, I

 

00:27:05:18 - 00:27:07:08

I was not expecting that at all.

 

00:27:07:08 - 00:27:09:13

Like, I hate Oreos.

 

00:27:09:14 - 00:27:10:11

People will be sleeping.

 

00:27:10:11 - 00:27:12:23

Ocho Rios man is beautiful.

 

00:27:12:23 - 00:27:14:11

And being that was like

 

00:27:14:11 - 00:27:15:22

that was the most fun it was.

 

00:27:15:22 - 00:27:18:02

It was a little like a little shady

 

00:27:18:02 - 00:27:19:19

things that was happening to.

 

00:27:19:19 - 00:27:21:13

But yeah,

 

00:27:21:13 - 00:27:24:10

needless to say, it was it was fun.

 

00:27:24:10 - 00:27:25:13

And when I'm in my 80,

 

00:27:25:13 - 00:27:27:21

I mean things that you had to be

 

00:27:27:21 - 00:27:29:08

scared for.

 

00:27:29:08 - 00:27:31:22

Like, I had nothing to do with safety.

 

00:27:31:22 - 00:27:34:06

It had, I mean, it could have, but

 

00:27:34:06 - 00:27:36:13

it literally had everything to do with

 

00:27:36:16 - 00:27:37:12

people.

 

00:27:38:15 - 00:27:40:15

Do anything for money,

 

00:27:40:15 - 00:27:42:02

let's put it like that.

 

00:27:42:02 - 00:27:44:04

Oh, okay.

 

00:27:44:04 - 00:27:44:24

Yeah.

 

00:27:48:07 - 00:27:48:17

I mean

 

00:27:48:17 - 00:27:49:19

in high school

 

00:27:49:19 - 00:27:52:06

we to go too much further into that.

 

00:27:52:06 - 00:27:54:08

So I literally don't care

 

00:27:54:11 - 00:27:56:04

I don't care what people think I'm

 

00:27:56:04 - 00:27:57:11

if I want to know,

 

00:27:57:11 - 00:27:58:19

well, I will tell you

 

00:27:58:19 - 00:27:59:18

like, wow,

 

00:27:59:18 - 00:28:02:00

I don't get to go too far, dude.

 

00:28:02:00 - 00:28:03:20

We ain't going to Florida

 

00:28:03:20 - 00:28:05:03

because no problem.

 

00:28:05:03 - 00:28:07:09

Listen, we keep we'll keep it clean.

 

00:28:07:09 - 00:28:07:22

So so

 

00:28:07:22 - 00:28:09:14

we actually said

 

00:28:09:14 - 00:28:12:10

so your most memorable was Mexico.

 

00:28:12:17 - 00:28:14:09

You're most fine with Jamaica.

 

00:28:14:09 - 00:28:18:22

I like as individuals and as a couple.

 

00:28:19:11 - 00:28:21:09

How have you seen traveling

 

00:28:21:09 - 00:28:23:02

while Black Bentley?

 

00:28:23:02 - 00:28:25:19

Mike, what was your experience like?

 

00:28:25:19 - 00:28:27:17

Because Kindred did

 

00:28:27:17 - 00:28:29:19

do you even think about it because like

 

00:28:30:04 - 00:28:31:06

do you think

 

00:28:31:07 - 00:28:32:12

now I have to be careful

 

00:28:32:12 - 00:28:33:11

now you got to realize

 

00:28:33:11 - 00:28:34:10

there's a difference right?

 

00:28:34:10 - 00:28:35:13

Traveling as an athlete,

 

00:28:36:15 - 00:28:37:10

right?

 

00:28:37:13 - 00:28:38:15

As a black man after

 

00:28:38:15 - 00:28:40:04

being an athlete and in traveling

 

00:28:40:04 - 00:28:42:07

as a black woman. Right.

 

00:28:42:07 - 00:28:44:05

There are things that you have to take

 

00:28:44:05 - 00:28:45:13

into mind

 

00:28:45:13 - 00:28:47:19

when you leave the house, when you go

 

00:28:48:00 - 00:28:49:05

other places.

 

00:28:49:05 - 00:28:50:11

So separate.

 

00:28:50:11 - 00:28:51:16

Yeah, that's separate.

 

00:28:51:16 - 00:28:52:17

It might be something issue

 

00:28:52:17 - 00:28:53:17

that you guys face

 

00:28:53:17 - 00:28:54:18

when you travel

 

00:28:54:18 - 00:28:57:15

individually versus traveling together.

 

00:28:58:00 - 00:28:59:05

What's the difference like?

 

00:28:59:05 - 00:29:01:14

I guess I'll give you an example.

 

00:29:01:14 - 00:29:02:14

When I travel

 

00:29:02:14 - 00:29:03:14

without him,

 

00:29:03:14 - 00:29:04:21

I feel like

 

00:29:04:21 - 00:29:06:15

people feel like it's open season.

 

00:29:06:15 - 00:29:08:18

People will come and talk to me

 

00:29:08:18 - 00:29:10:06

all the time, you know, catch

 

00:29:10:06 - 00:29:11:12

cold, all that.

 

00:29:11:12 - 00:29:12:13

I guess it gets it.

 

00:29:12:13 - 00:29:13:05

It gets annoying.

 

00:29:13:05 - 00:29:14:22

Even when I'm with my girlfriend.

 

00:29:14:22 - 00:29:16:23

If I'm traveling with him, I'm safe.

 

00:29:16:23 - 00:29:18:21

I don't have no night.

 

00:29:18:21 - 00:29:20:06

Nobody bothers me.

 

00:29:20:06 - 00:29:20:12

You know,

 

00:29:20:12 - 00:29:21:10

people are so nice

 

00:29:21:10 - 00:29:22:08

and you know, whatever

 

00:29:22:08 - 00:29:24:07

but not not to the extent

 

00:29:24:07 - 00:29:27:02

if I'm by myself, if he's alone,

 

00:29:27:07 - 00:29:29:12

he might get some white woman

 

00:29:29:12 - 00:29:30:21

cross in the other way

 

00:29:30:21 - 00:29:31:21

across the street

 

00:29:31:21 - 00:29:33:05

because they kind of

 

00:29:33:05 - 00:29:35:04

scared of what he might do,

 

00:29:35:04 - 00:29:36:11

but when he's with me,

 

00:29:36:11 - 00:29:38:01

he doesn't really get that.

 

00:29:38:01 - 00:29:40:22

So and with that said, it's like

 

00:29:41:04 - 00:29:42:24

domestic versus international

 

00:29:42:24 - 00:29:44:10

travel, right?

 

00:29:44:10 - 00:29:45:18

Like internationally,

 

00:29:45:18 - 00:29:47:12

they're, like, intrigued.

 

00:29:47:12 - 00:29:49:18

You're a tall black man with locks.

 

00:29:50:00 - 00:29:52:03

I want to touch your hair. Like,

 

00:29:53:03 - 00:29:55:07

I'm inquisitive and.

 

00:29:55:13 - 00:29:56:09

Right, right.

 

00:29:56:09 - 00:29:58:09

So don't think we will know the way

 

00:29:58:09 - 00:30:00:07

we get him to touch his hair

 

00:30:00:07 - 00:30:02:12

when I'm there. Exactly.

 

00:30:02:12 - 00:30:04:01

Which is actually

 

00:30:04:01 - 00:30:06:15

being afraid of discovering

 

00:30:06:15 - 00:30:09:24

mystery with my territorio.

 

00:30:10:00 - 00:30:12:05

I'm clear about what has experience

 

00:30:12:08 - 00:30:13:13

been individually

 

00:30:13:13 - 00:30:15:23

and having traveled together?

 

00:30:15:24 - 00:30:18:06

Like, has that changed

 

00:30:19:17 - 00:30:20:02

yeah.

 

00:30:20:02 - 00:30:23:09

I don't really encounter any problems.

 

00:30:23:09 - 00:30:24:20

We haven't really.

 

00:30:24:20 - 00:30:25:12

Well, for me,

 

00:30:25:12 - 00:30:27:15

I haven't experienced anything like that.

 

00:30:27:23 - 00:30:28:18

Okay.

 

00:30:29:00 - 00:30:31:07

Well, that actually just brings us to

 

00:30:32:04 - 00:30:34:10

regularly scheduled programing.

 

00:30:34:10 - 00:30:37:01

But we were trying to avoid.

 

00:30:37:01 - 00:30:38:05

Just last question.

 

00:30:38:05 - 00:30:40:07

But here goes.

 

00:30:40:07 - 00:30:41:13

So

 

00:30:42:04 - 00:30:44:05

at this particular resort,

 

00:30:45:24 - 00:30:47:09

like I said, we had anaphora

 

00:30:47:09 - 00:30:48:17

and everything was legit,

 

00:30:48:17 - 00:30:52:02

except this time

 

00:30:52:02 - 00:30:55:05

where I'm at the Met myself

 

00:30:55:05 - 00:30:56:11

and the two other males

 

00:30:56:11 - 00:30:58:07

that were on, on the trip

 

00:30:58:07 - 00:31:00:15

we were at the pool,

 

00:31:00:15 - 00:31:02:11

the ladies, we, we,

 

00:31:02:11 - 00:31:04:18

I don't know if we gifted them or the

 

00:31:04:18 - 00:31:05:10

you had just went,

 

00:31:05:10 - 00:31:08:19

but they went to massage yeah.

 

00:31:08:22 - 00:31:12:07

They got a elongated massage.

 

00:31:12:07 - 00:31:13:14

So it was like an hour

 

00:31:13:14 - 00:31:14:23

and a half to 2 hours.

 

00:31:14:23 - 00:31:15:20

It was like

 

00:31:15:20 - 00:31:17:00

they were going for a long time.

 

00:31:17:00 - 00:31:19:21

I they probably left anyway. Oh

 

00:31:23:16 - 00:31:24:04

no.

 

00:31:24:04 - 00:31:26:15

We at the, we, we at the

 

00:31:26:15 - 00:31:29:24

pool and we all are blowing up there.

 

00:31:29:24 - 00:31:32:00

They're flotation devices

 

00:31:32:00 - 00:31:33:17

which we have floating

 

00:31:33:17 - 00:31:35:08

which were diamond rings.

 

00:31:35:08 - 00:31:35:18

All right.

 

00:31:35:18 - 00:31:37:09

It was a dove

 

00:31:37:09 - 00:31:40:04

and they had they all that day

 

00:31:40:04 - 00:31:41:16

they all planned to wear

 

00:31:41:16 - 00:31:42:13

to surprise us

 

00:31:42:13 - 00:31:44:24

wearing the same white light

 

00:31:45:03 - 00:31:46:22

bathing suit. Right.

 

00:31:46:22 - 00:31:47:21

So

 

00:31:48:11 - 00:31:49:24

they got this whole day planned

 

00:31:49:24 - 00:31:52:04

or whatever I was chilling by the pool.

 

00:31:52:22 - 00:31:54:04

Don't get a massage.

 

00:31:54:04 - 00:31:54:20

They come out.

 

00:31:54:20 - 00:31:57:01

We all do our thing together

 

00:31:57:01 - 00:31:59:05

while we are waiting.

 

00:31:59:17 - 00:32:01:12

The waitress comes around

 

00:32:01:12 - 00:32:04:14

and she literally gives us drinks.

 

00:32:04:24 - 00:32:05:24

One time

 

00:32:05:24 - 00:32:07:14

she comes back around and says, hey,

 

00:32:07:14 - 00:32:10:00

do I give you any more free time?

 

00:32:10:03 - 00:32:12:03

Surely I mean, whenever

 

00:32:12:03 - 00:32:13:13

the third time she comes around,

 

00:32:13:13 - 00:32:15:03

she says,

 

00:32:15:21 - 00:32:16:20

So what you are doing

 

00:32:19:04 - 00:32:19:23

mean

 

00:32:21:11 - 00:32:23:16

been here entire time,

 

00:32:23:22 - 00:32:25:22

you know, about these flotation

 

00:32:25:22 - 00:32:27:12

devices and chillin

 

00:32:27:12 - 00:32:28:03

and she like, yeah,

 

00:32:28:03 - 00:32:30:04

but what do I do later?

 

00:32:30:04 - 00:32:31:03

Oh,

 

00:32:32:00 - 00:32:32:24

so now I'm thinking

 

00:32:32:24 - 00:32:35:06

that she's like trying to help

 

00:32:35:06 - 00:32:37:20

get us to one of those late night events

 

00:32:37:20 - 00:32:39:16

that they have at the resort.

 

00:32:39:16 - 00:32:40:16

So we're like, Oh, no.

 

00:32:40:16 - 00:32:41:11

And we just chill

 

00:32:41:11 - 00:32:41:23

and, you know,

 

00:32:41:23 - 00:32:43:13

we probably go to one of those.

 

00:32:43:13 - 00:32:44:15

Then she's like, Yeah,

 

00:32:44:15 - 00:32:45:23

I'm not talking about that.

 

00:32:45:23 - 00:32:46:19

I'm like,

 

00:32:47:00 - 00:32:48:24

Well, what are you talking about?

 

00:32:48:24 - 00:32:51:16

She's like, Well, what are you doing

 

00:32:51:16 - 00:32:52:07

Oh,

 

00:32:53:12 - 00:32:54:23

hold on now.

 

00:32:54:23 - 00:32:58:07

This is pearls that had to up

 

00:32:58:17 - 00:33:01:12

a diamond ring floating

 

00:33:01:12 - 00:33:03:15

I imagine in our explanation,

 

00:33:03:16 - 00:33:03:21

we like

 

00:33:03:21 - 00:33:05:07

waiting for our wives to come back.

 

00:33:05:07 - 00:33:06:09

They just got their,

 

00:33:06:09 - 00:33:07:16

you know, their massages or whatever.

 

00:33:08:22 - 00:33:11:04

Yo, homegirl was trying

 

00:33:11:04 - 00:33:12:09

homegirl was trying to,

 

00:33:12:09 - 00:33:13:06

you know,

 

00:33:13:10 - 00:33:15:15

make a little extra money, right?

 

00:33:15:15 - 00:33:18:02

And so she had this other

 

00:33:18:02 - 00:33:21:18

dude at the bar trying to come, you know,

 

00:33:21:23 - 00:33:23:24

talk to me about it, like, yo,

 

00:33:23:24 - 00:33:25:21

you seriously, you know, cool.

 

00:33:25:21 - 00:33:28:05

No, I'm good. Thanks.

 

00:33:28:23 - 00:33:29:21

I don't I don't

 

00:33:29:21 - 00:33:31:17

I don't know, but that's why. Right?

 

00:33:31:17 - 00:33:33:16

That's what it is. Just say no.

 

00:33:33:16 - 00:33:34:08

All right?

 

00:33:34:08 - 00:33:35:12

I don't I don't

 

00:33:35:12 - 00:33:36:22

I don't think in most, like,

 

00:33:36:22 - 00:33:39:20

what you know is what class I don't

 

00:33:41:00 - 00:33:43:07

know. I don't know.

 

00:33:43:07 - 00:33:45:23

I'm I'm not so huge.

 

00:33:46:05 - 00:33:47:08

So we're all

 

00:33:47:08 - 00:33:48:05

when it all

 

00:33:48:05 - 00:33:50:15

now here's where things the crazy

 

00:33:51:15 - 00:33:53:24

the ladies finally come back

 

00:33:53:24 - 00:33:56:06

now they're all at the swim up bar

 

00:33:56:06 - 00:33:58:05

so they're in the pool at the bar

 

00:33:58:05 - 00:34:02:04

getting drinks and bride put on

 

00:34:03:13 - 00:34:06:12

the y y y y y y.

 

00:34:07:23 - 00:34:09:17

So

 

00:34:09:21 - 00:34:11:15

ti comes back to me later on.

 

00:34:11:15 - 00:34:12:12

It was like,

 

00:34:12:12 - 00:34:13:24

you know what happened

 

00:34:13:24 - 00:34:14:24

because I would need to know

 

00:34:14:24 - 00:34:16:03

what happened.

 

00:34:16:03 - 00:34:16:21

What happened.

 

00:34:16:21 - 00:34:20:02

Clearly a wake as a early awareness.

 

00:34:20:10 - 00:34:22:18

You really mean she goes

 

00:34:22:18 - 00:34:24:04

the guy at the bar was like,

 

00:34:24:04 - 00:34:24:24

yo, you got like,

 

00:34:24:24 - 00:34:26:21

which one is your husband?

 

00:34:26:21 - 00:34:29:12

And I was at the total

 

00:34:29:12 - 00:34:31:18

he was like, Yo,

 

00:34:31:18 - 00:34:33:04

you got a good point.

 

00:34:33:04 - 00:34:35:09

Oh, yeah.

 

00:34:35:22 - 00:34:38:09

That same guy that was trying to get me

 

00:34:39:09 - 00:34:42:02

to slide or homegirl

 

00:34:42:02 - 00:34:45:18

wound up having a intimate conversation.

 

00:34:45:18 - 00:34:47:18

Tell her about me.

 

00:34:47:18 - 00:34:48:17

I'm like,

 

00:34:48:22 - 00:34:50:12

so just imagine

 

00:34:50:12 - 00:34:52:13

if I was on that type of time.

 

00:34:53:01 - 00:34:55:07

The type of conversation

 

00:34:55:07 - 00:34:59:08

that could have been so that to me.

 

00:34:59:08 - 00:35:01:03

That's when I'm not a

 

00:35:01:03 - 00:35:02:22

so I don't belong about this alien.

 

00:35:02:22 - 00:35:04:01

I'm not around my white

 

00:35:05:24 - 00:35:07:07

the women

 

00:35:07:07 - 00:35:09:21

are y you name

 

00:35:11:18 - 00:35:14:01

like tall, black, tall, athletic

 

00:35:14:01 - 00:35:16:03

looking black man. Exactly.

 

00:35:16:17 - 00:35:20:05

Well, with me, it's not even it's

 

00:35:20:05 - 00:35:21:24

not even a question she likes.

 

00:35:21:24 - 00:35:24:08

He told you is he's from

 

00:35:24:08 - 00:35:25:16

every bit of that.

 

00:35:25:16 - 00:35:27:00

No, I'm saying it

 

00:35:28:11 - 00:35:30:20

she's every bit of that

 

00:35:30:20 - 00:35:33:11

pushing the limits right now.

 

00:35:33:12 - 00:35:36:05

Believe me, I'm a trying to.

 

00:35:36:10 - 00:35:37:10

Don't try.

 

00:35:37:10 - 00:35:39:05

It's a problem.

 

00:35:39:05 - 00:35:42:02

Wow, that's crazy.

 

00:35:42:02 - 00:35:43:04

That's crazy.

 

00:35:43:04 - 00:35:44:14

So, like,

 

00:35:44:22 - 00:35:47:20

now that we all come out of this, like,

 

00:35:48:05 - 00:35:50:22

18 month lockdown, right?

 

00:35:50:22 - 00:35:51:11

Like,

 

00:35:51:14 - 00:35:52:23

and I'm not talking to anybody

 

00:35:52:23 - 00:35:55:08

from Florida or

 

00:35:55:08 - 00:35:58:12

or Arizona or whatever.

 

00:35:58:23 - 00:35:59:05

Right?

 

00:35:59:05 - 00:36:00:08

I'm talking about New York

 

00:36:00:08 - 00:36:01:13

where we have

 

00:36:01:13 - 00:36:02:15

Governor Cuomo

 

00:36:02:15 - 00:36:04:16

it would rob me was not playing

 

00:36:04:17 - 00:36:08:13

now is now quarantining now you guys know

 

00:36:08:20 - 00:36:10:00

you go into a restaurant

 

00:36:10:00 - 00:36:12:03

you got to show your vaccine card

 

00:36:12:24 - 00:36:15:11

you like me and he sells the iPads.

 

00:36:15:19 - 00:36:18:10

Exactly now that there's a new norm

 

00:36:18:10 - 00:36:19:19

how do y'all move around

 

00:36:19:19 - 00:36:21:02

like what's your new

 

00:36:21:02 - 00:36:22:08

normal to move in around

 

00:36:24:07 - 00:36:24:20

Wow.

 

00:36:24:20 - 00:36:27:03

This past June, we went to

 

00:36:28:08 - 00:36:30:21

Saint Martin for his parents anniversary.

 

00:36:31:09 - 00:36:31:18

Nice.

 

00:36:31:18 - 00:36:35:23

And we had to get COVID tested.

 

00:36:36:04 - 00:36:38:04

We had a lot of times, yeah,

 

00:36:38:04 - 00:36:41:05

we had to fill out this form and paid $30

 

00:36:41:05 - 00:36:43:12

for the form just to fill out the form

 

00:36:44:19 - 00:36:47:12

it was just a lot of

 

00:36:47:12 - 00:36:49:07

it is so expensive now.

 

00:36:49:07 - 00:36:50:11

It's ridiculous.

 

00:36:50:11 - 00:36:51:15

Shout out to Saint Laurent.

 

00:36:51:15 - 00:36:53:08

And that place was amazing.

 

00:36:53:08 - 00:36:54:24

As well, just knowing that out.

 

00:36:54:24 - 00:36:56:00

Yeah,

 

00:36:56:19 - 00:36:58:10

that's on the list.

 

00:36:59:21 - 00:37:00:21

We weren't allowed

 

00:37:00:21 - 00:37:01:08

to come

 

00:37:01:08 - 00:37:05:19

to the restaurant without a mask, Max.

 

00:37:05:20 - 00:37:08:08

No, she would not eat.

 

00:37:08:13 - 00:37:09:13

No, you need a mask.

 

00:37:09:13 - 00:37:11:21

Just walk in and I'm all right.

 

00:37:11:21 - 00:37:13:16

Going back to get my mask.

 

00:37:13:16 - 00:37:14:09

It's just.

 

00:37:14:09 - 00:37:16:10

Yeah, yeah, I'm not.

 

00:37:16:10 - 00:37:17:12

I'm not going to hold you.

 

00:37:17:12 - 00:37:19:04

I never stopped travel

 

00:37:19:04 - 00:37:21:13

not during quarantine.

 

00:37:21:20 - 00:37:23:16

We didn't all the way.

 

00:37:23:16 - 00:37:25:01

Yeah, I was always on the goal,

 

00:37:26:11 - 00:37:26:23

and.

 

00:37:26:23 - 00:37:27:15

But it was.

 

00:37:27:15 - 00:37:30:01

It was it was insta, right?

 

00:37:30:08 - 00:37:32:08

It was. It was domestic battle.

 

00:37:32:21 - 00:37:33:03

Yeah.

 

00:37:33:03 - 00:37:35:13

So a lot of bad around stuff.

 

00:37:35:13 - 00:37:37:09

And New York, as you say,

 

00:37:37:09 - 00:37:39:20

they were not playing whatsoever.

 

00:37:40:14 - 00:37:43:04

You come in, you coming back from L.A.,

 

00:37:43:14 - 00:37:45:24

they have people creating a barricade.

 

00:37:45:24 - 00:37:47:16

Once you get off on the plane

 

00:37:47:16 - 00:37:49:17

to make sure you fill out the forms

 

00:37:49:17 - 00:37:51:06

and blah, blah, blah.

 

00:37:51:06 - 00:37:51:14

Of course,

 

00:37:51:14 - 00:37:52:24

there's ways around that as well.

 

00:37:52:24 - 00:37:53:15

But

 

00:37:54:12 - 00:37:55:24

making sure that you

 

00:37:55:24 - 00:37:58:09

you took the form at the very least

 

00:37:59:10 - 00:38:01:14

then I came back from L.A.

 

00:38:01:14 - 00:38:04:15

It was the same type of deal

 

00:38:04:22 - 00:38:05:11

to me.

 

00:38:05:11 - 00:38:06:18

Nothing really stop me.

 

00:38:06:18 - 00:38:07:10

I just learned

 

00:38:07:10 - 00:38:09:21

how to be safe in those moments.

 

00:38:10:13 - 00:38:14:03

So if you travel in is very simple,

 

00:38:14:18 - 00:38:17:00

wear your mask, wash your hands,

 

00:38:17:10 - 00:38:19:18

wear your mask, wash your hands.

 

00:38:20:04 - 00:38:22:19

And I mean, I've never tested positive.

 

00:38:23:02 - 00:38:23:18

Thank God.

 

00:38:23:18 - 00:38:24:13

I don't

 

00:38:24:14 - 00:38:26:16

I don't think I had any antibodies,

 

00:38:26:16 - 00:38:29:07

which means it was never a mask system.

 

00:38:29:07 - 00:38:29:21

And the mask

 

00:38:29:21 - 00:38:30:20

one of the in my view,

 

00:38:30:20 - 00:38:33:14

I was in battle rap functions.

 

00:38:33:21 - 00:38:37:04

So like I would I would have my mask on.

 

00:38:37:04 - 00:38:38:17

And unless I was battling,

 

00:38:38:17 - 00:38:39:23

that's when my mask came off.

 

00:38:39:23 - 00:38:41:06

So I would just learning,

 

00:38:41:06 - 00:38:43:05

like I need to make sure

 

00:38:43:05 - 00:38:44:09

that I'm doing things

 

00:38:44:09 - 00:38:46:06

that have been asked of me

 

00:38:46:06 - 00:38:47:11

to keep myself safe

 

00:38:47:11 - 00:38:48:24

and those around me safe.

 

00:38:48:24 - 00:38:51:00

And, you know, that's really it.

 

00:38:51:08 - 00:38:51:17

Yeah.

 

00:38:52:01 - 00:38:54:05

So while we're on the same subject, like

 

00:38:54:19 - 00:38:56:24

three people that are looking to travel,

 

00:38:56:24 - 00:38:58:16

what are some tips

 

00:38:58:16 - 00:39:00:09

that you would give them to,

 

00:39:00:09 - 00:39:02:10

at least if not get started,

 

00:39:02:10 - 00:39:03:05

but while they start

 

00:39:03:05 - 00:39:04:02

while they're traveling,

 

00:39:04:02 - 00:39:04:24

like what are some tips

 

00:39:04:24 - 00:39:05:12

that you would give

 

00:39:05:12 - 00:39:06:21

some people for traveling

 

00:39:06:21 - 00:39:10:14

and what are some couples travel tips?

 

00:39:11:10 - 00:39:12:23

I like that one.

 

00:39:12:23 - 00:39:13:17

Now, that's good

 

00:39:13:17 - 00:39:16:00

because I'm about to be sarcastic woman.

 

00:39:16:06 - 00:39:19:04

My presence the answer is, if you're

 

00:39:19:04 - 00:39:20:20

looking to travel,

 

00:39:20:20 - 00:39:23:00

that ain't just traveling.

 

00:39:23:00 - 00:39:25:21

Just so that's a good tip, though.

 

00:39:26:07 - 00:39:28:08

That's not sarcasm. That's real.

 

00:39:28:08 - 00:39:29:16

That's what I was going to say.

 

00:39:29:16 - 00:39:30:20

So a lot of people say,

 

00:39:30:20 - 00:39:32:00

Oh, I don't have the time

 

00:39:32:00 - 00:39:33:05

or I don't have the money.

 

00:39:33:05 - 00:39:34:18

You probably never have the time.

 

00:39:34:18 - 00:39:36:21

I never have any roommates.

 

00:39:36:21 - 00:39:38:11

If you get paid it,

 

00:39:38:11 - 00:39:42:00

even if you say ten, $20, it will add up

 

00:39:42:00 - 00:39:43:16

and start off small

 

00:39:43:16 - 00:39:44:15

and you branched off

 

00:39:44:15 - 00:39:45:12

to, you know,

 

00:39:45:12 - 00:39:47:20

bigger trips right I'm like,

 

00:39:48:13 - 00:39:50:13

if you've never traveled before.

 

00:39:51:00 - 00:39:51:18

Right.

 

00:39:51:19 - 00:39:52:22

I see.

 

00:39:52:22 - 00:39:55:12

Starting off with a semi,

 

00:39:55:12 - 00:39:57:10

a local getaway.

 

00:39:57:10 - 00:39:58:10

So for us,

 

00:39:58:10 - 00:40:00:15

we live in New York and New Jersey.

 

00:40:01:11 - 00:40:05:01

So Atlantic City or Mohegan Sun.

 

00:40:05:01 - 00:40:06:13

Yeah, something like that.

 

00:40:06:13 - 00:40:09:01

Is it's far but it's close.

 

00:40:09:01 - 00:40:09:22

But it's far.

 

00:40:10:21 - 00:40:13:23

And learn how to be in a hotel.

 

00:40:13:23 - 00:40:17:03

Learn how to get out have an itinerary

 

00:40:17:16 - 00:40:20:00

if you're that type or if you like me.

 

00:40:20:10 - 00:40:23:03

Spontaneity is the is the way to go.

 

00:40:23:07 - 00:40:26:22

So whatever it is that you do, do that.

 

00:40:26:23 - 00:40:30:05

Don't try to be something you're not in.

 

00:40:31:01 - 00:40:31:12

Right.

 

00:40:31:12 - 00:40:35:09

So my wife is not a planner.

 

00:40:36:02 - 00:40:38:19

But she likes to know what things like

 

00:40:39:00 - 00:40:39:23

what we would do.

 

00:40:39:23 - 00:40:41:15

So we

 

00:40:41:15 - 00:40:43:03

like at least a day before like,

 

00:40:43:03 - 00:40:45:00

okay, what are we going to do tomorrow?

 

00:40:45:00 - 00:40:47:17

So you know, and I'm like,

 

00:40:47:17 - 00:40:49:21

let's wake up and see what it feels like.

 

00:40:49:21 - 00:40:51:03

I don't know.

 

00:40:52:07 - 00:40:53:16

Who knows?

 

00:40:53:16 - 00:40:55:02

That is so

 

00:40:55:10 - 00:40:56:18

I need to know what's going on.

 

00:40:56:18 - 00:40:57:17

Like, what are we doing?

 

00:40:57:17 - 00:40:58:09

It is

 

00:40:59:06 - 00:40:59:18

always is

 

00:40:59:18 - 00:41:00:12

waste of the day

 

00:41:00:12 - 00:41:02:20

or will it be available tomorrow?

 

00:41:02:20 - 00:41:03:10

That's true.

 

00:41:03:10 - 00:41:03:21

And that's

 

00:41:03:21 - 00:41:05:12

and that's and that's the yin yang yang.

 

00:41:05:12 - 00:41:05:17

Right?

 

00:41:05:17 - 00:41:07:06

Because I'm just like, who cares

 

00:41:07:06 - 00:41:08:01

if it's not available

 

00:41:08:01 - 00:41:08:22

or do something else?

 

00:41:08:22 - 00:41:09:16

But, you know,

 

00:41:09:16 - 00:41:11:12

sometimes you do have to plan ahead.

 

00:41:13:03 - 00:41:14:09

And I'm grateful for that

 

00:41:14:09 - 00:41:16:12

because that's not me at all.

 

00:41:16:12 - 00:41:18:00

So I'm

 

00:41:18:00 - 00:41:19:00

thankful that

 

00:41:19:00 - 00:41:21:17

I have some sort of structure within her

 

00:41:22:00 - 00:41:24:18

to help me while I'm on vacation.

 

00:41:24:18 - 00:41:26:09

Because when I'm back

 

00:41:26:09 - 00:41:27:12

with my boys,

 

00:41:27:12 - 00:41:28:13

don't do's,

 

00:41:28:13 - 00:41:29:18

don't do the plane and stuff

 

00:41:29:18 - 00:41:31:06

because I don't want to plan up

 

00:41:31:06 - 00:41:31:14

the night.

 

00:41:31:14 - 00:41:34:07

Let's just see what happens is

 

00:41:35:13 - 00:41:37:00

but yeah, like that's that

 

00:41:37:00 - 00:41:39:10

when it comes to tips.

 

00:41:39:17 - 00:41:40:02

So yeah,

 

00:41:40:02 - 00:41:41:11

I only have one tip

 

00:41:41:11 - 00:41:43:00

when it comes to those

 

00:41:43:00 - 00:41:44:21

who are thinking about

 

00:41:44:21 - 00:41:47:14

and just travel, find just spot

 

00:41:47:24 - 00:41:49:16

and go

 

00:41:51:02 - 00:41:53:03

if you if you must do your research

 

00:41:53:05 - 00:41:55:18

on that area, that city, that country

 

00:41:56:23 - 00:42:00:04

and and figure out

 

00:42:00:06 - 00:42:01:17

where not to go

 

00:42:01:17 - 00:42:04:05

for your safety because let's be real.

 

00:42:04:17 - 00:42:07:01

Nobody is super me like we

 

00:42:07:01 - 00:42:08:14

we all have those

 

00:42:08:14 - 00:42:08:22

we could

 

00:42:08:22 - 00:42:11:03

all be vulnerable at some time

 

00:42:11:03 - 00:42:12:17

and things could go bad.

 

00:42:12:17 - 00:42:15:03

So if you if you must do your research

 

00:42:15:03 - 00:42:17:07

or where not to go

 

00:42:17:07 - 00:42:20:06

by yourself and make sure that you

 

00:42:20:06 - 00:42:20:23

you follow

 

00:42:20:23 - 00:42:22:07

you follow those guidelines

 

00:42:22:07 - 00:42:23:24

to make sure that you stay safe

 

00:42:23:24 - 00:42:25:06

and that your loved ones

 

00:42:25:06 - 00:42:27:04

see you when you come back,

 

00:42:27:04 - 00:42:29:06

when it comes when it comes

 

00:42:29:06 - 00:42:32:01

to many couples, I must say

 

00:42:33:14 - 00:42:35:11

find a couple that you

 

00:42:35:11 - 00:42:37:13

get along with the cons.

 

00:42:37:13 - 00:42:38:13

I don't know if they meant it.

 

00:42:38:13 - 00:42:39:22

That was a man.

 

00:42:39:22 - 00:42:42:04

You can go where you are now.

 

00:42:42:04 - 00:42:42:20

We just

 

00:42:43:13 - 00:42:45:07

because you want to enjoy your trip,

 

00:42:45:07 - 00:42:47:14

you don't want to go on

 

00:42:47:14 - 00:42:49:17

a trip with a couples

 

00:42:49:17 - 00:42:51:03

like the Debbie Downer.

 

00:42:51:03 - 00:42:52:05

They don't want to do this.

 

00:42:52:05 - 00:42:52:21

They don't,

 

00:42:52:21 - 00:42:53:16

you know,

 

00:42:53:16 - 00:42:54:22

find people

 

00:42:54:22 - 00:42:58:07

that are like minded who enjoy the things

 

00:42:58:08 - 00:43:01:08

you enjoy and just go out and have fun.

 

00:43:02:01 - 00:43:03:18

I'm going to piggyback that.

 

00:43:03:18 - 00:43:04:21

That's paramount.

 

00:43:04:21 - 00:43:07:05

Oh, my gosh. Yes, Paramount.

 

00:43:07:05 - 00:43:09:06

Thankfully, I'll know during the period.

 

00:43:10:04 - 00:43:11:00

Yes, I see.

 

00:43:11:00 - 00:43:13:08

Thankfully, we've never been in a

 

00:43:13:19 - 00:43:15:16

on a trip with Debbie Downer.

 

00:43:15:16 - 00:43:16:01

Right.

 

00:43:16:01 - 00:43:16:14

Right now

 

00:43:16:14 - 00:43:18:10

I've heard stories and I'm like, yeah,

 

00:43:18:10 - 00:43:20:15

we we love our friends.

 

00:43:20:15 - 00:43:21:16

We hear

 

00:43:21:16 - 00:43:24:08

we want to tell you I hate family.

 

00:43:25:03 - 00:43:26:21

Right, right.

 

00:43:26:21 - 00:43:27:17

And one of the things

 

00:43:27:17 - 00:43:29:08

I think that helped in that

 

00:43:29:08 - 00:43:30:18

that vetting process

 

00:43:30:18 - 00:43:32:21

was the fact that we were in a group chat

 

00:43:32:21 - 00:43:34:15

for almost a year before we even,

 

00:43:34:15 - 00:43:35:00

you know,

 

00:43:36:22 - 00:43:40:01

so we got to learn each other

 

00:43:40:01 - 00:43:42:20

through social media means.

 

00:43:42:20 - 00:43:43:11

And what I mean by

 

00:43:43:11 - 00:43:44:19

so I'm not sorry about Instagram

 

00:43:44:19 - 00:43:46:24

and WhatsApp

 

00:43:46:24 - 00:43:49:01

group me that type of social media.

 

00:43:49:01 - 00:43:49:15

Yeah.

 

00:43:49:23 - 00:43:52:10

And so we learned how we learned

 

00:43:52:18 - 00:43:53:15

not temperament,

 

00:43:53:15 - 00:43:55:10

but we just learned what people liked

 

00:43:55:10 - 00:43:56:16

and what they enjoyed.

 

00:43:56:16 - 00:43:57:22

And what were

 

00:43:57:22 - 00:43:59:09

what was meaningful to them.

 

00:43:59:09 - 00:44:00:23

And once once we did that,

 

00:44:00:23 - 00:44:02:24

it was easy to go on vacation with them

 

00:44:02:24 - 00:44:04:04

because

 

00:44:04:05 - 00:44:05:06

the very first thing

 

00:44:05:06 - 00:44:08:03

that we did was go to Orlando.

 

00:44:08:15 - 00:44:10:15

And the couple we did not know

 

00:44:11:24 - 00:44:13:24

we never met.

 

00:44:13:24 - 00:44:17:12

The couple we did know got there after us

 

00:44:18:01 - 00:44:19:16

and the couple we didn't know

 

00:44:19:16 - 00:44:21:09

was already there,

 

00:44:21:09 - 00:44:22:23

but our room wasn't ready

 

00:44:22:23 - 00:44:25:11

once we got to the resort.

 

00:44:25:11 - 00:44:27:16

So we were like,

 

00:44:27:16 - 00:44:29:05

Well, what are we going to do?

 

00:44:29:05 - 00:44:31:19

And we never physically met them.

 

00:44:31:19 - 00:44:33:16

And they said, Oh, just go to our.

 

00:44:33:16 - 00:44:35:06

Yeah, so a friend of a friend.

 

00:44:35:06 - 00:44:38:00

So one couple was our friend.

 

00:44:38:00 - 00:44:40:05

And then the part of that couple

 

00:44:40:07 - 00:44:41:13

that was their friends.

 

00:44:41:13 - 00:44:43:16

So they introduced us.

 

00:44:44:02 - 00:44:45:11

So we never met

 

00:44:45:11 - 00:44:47:21

we never met this couple physically

 

00:44:47:21 - 00:44:48:17

and they allowed

 

00:44:48:17 - 00:44:50:09

us to go hang out in their room.

 

00:44:50:09 - 00:44:51:17

And she was

 

00:44:51:17 - 00:44:52:17

they went to the pool

 

00:44:52:17 - 00:44:54:12

and allowed us to stay in a room. White.

 

00:44:54:12 - 00:44:56:03

Oh, nice. Them.

 

00:44:56:03 - 00:44:59:14

They have valuables and we like, wait.

 

00:44:59:14 - 00:45:00:11

She's like, no, yeah.

 

00:45:00:11 - 00:45:00:17

Yeah.

 

00:45:00:17 - 00:45:03:08

Change your just meet us at the pool.

 

00:45:03:08 - 00:45:03:21

We did

 

00:45:05:00 - 00:45:06:03

okay.

 

00:45:06:03 - 00:45:08:14

This isn't from New York.

 

00:45:08:14 - 00:45:11:06

Yeah, we're already getting

 

00:45:11:23 - 00:45:12:24

there. They're from.

 

00:45:12:24 - 00:45:15:04

Yeah, well, they're from Connecticut.

 

00:45:15:04 - 00:45:16:02

And Maryland.

 

00:45:16:02 - 00:45:17:00

Oh, no.

 

00:45:17:00 - 00:45:18:22

Different kind of trust.

 

00:45:18:23 - 00:45:20:00

You know,

 

00:45:20:00 - 00:45:22:01

the wife is from there from Connecticut,

 

00:45:22:01 - 00:45:23:09

but she moved to Maryland

 

00:45:23:09 - 00:45:24:10

when she went to college,

 

00:45:24:10 - 00:45:26:19

and she wound up staying in my mother

 

00:45:26:19 - 00:45:27:20

staying here.

 

00:45:27:20 - 00:45:30:17

And it was just like was,

 

00:45:30:22 - 00:45:33:12

okay, let's hurry up so they don't do it

 

00:45:34:08 - 00:45:35:17

right right?

 

00:45:35:17 - 00:45:37:01

Yeah. Rex Nelson is over.

 

00:45:37:01 - 00:45:39:15

We travel together all the time.

 

00:45:39:19 - 00:45:41:00

We go, and we're traveling with them

 

00:45:41:00 - 00:45:41:19

next weekend.

 

00:45:41:19 - 00:45:45:14

A lot of us in Nashville oh, nice.

 

00:45:45:14 - 00:45:47:08

Okay, so tell us.

 

00:45:47:08 - 00:45:49:17

Tell everybody where we can we find you.

 

00:45:49:18 - 00:45:51:16

What you got going on?

 

00:45:51:16 - 00:45:53:20

You know, we got K.J.

 

00:45:53:20 - 00:45:54:15

out here

 

00:45:54:15 - 00:45:55:14

you've been talking about this

 

00:45:55:14 - 00:45:56:12

battle rap.

 

00:45:56:12 - 00:45:57:19

Like, listen, this Christian

 

00:45:57:19 - 00:45:59:11

best combination

 

00:45:59:11 - 00:46:01:13

between being a pastor returner.

 

00:46:01:13 - 00:46:03:12

Listen, he'd be dropping

 

00:46:03:12 - 00:46:06:05

superstar and a rapper

 

00:46:06:06 - 00:46:07:07

if he dropped some Bible.

 

00:46:07:07 - 00:46:08:09

Why that make you like?

 

00:46:08:09 - 00:46:10:15

Yeah. Did he just kill them with a Bible?

 

00:46:10:19 - 00:46:11:22

Well, that's right.

 

00:46:11:22 - 00:46:13:03

I'm let's tell them what.

 

00:46:13:03 - 00:46:15:05

Tell them tell them carjack it's.

 

00:46:15:07 - 00:46:17:08

Now I want to know where he is. Some

 

00:46:19:14 - 00:46:20:13

experts.

 

00:46:20:13 - 00:46:21:11

I'm sure he could.

 

00:46:21:11 - 00:46:23:09

He could direct you to,

 

00:46:23:09 - 00:46:25:20

you know, the battles, but

 

00:46:26:09 - 00:46:28:24

my my my Instagram and Twitter

 

00:46:29:00 - 00:46:34:01

is carjacked PR again K Jake PR

 

00:46:34:15 - 00:46:37:12

the P stands for preacher or pastor,

 

00:46:37:12 - 00:46:39:01

depending on how you want to

 

00:46:39:01 - 00:46:39:21

you want to call it

 

00:46:39:21 - 00:46:42:05

in the Aristides for rapper.

 

00:46:42:05 - 00:46:43:05

But you know,

 

00:46:43:05 - 00:46:45:13

that's also a double entendre

 

00:46:45:13 - 00:46:47:09

because it's public relations as well.

 

00:46:47:09 - 00:46:47:21

Yeah.

 

00:46:47:21 - 00:46:48:17

Anyway,

 

00:46:49:01 - 00:46:53:03

so we literally I'm on I'm on Instagram,

 

00:46:53:12 - 00:46:57:09

Apple, Twitter, QPR and on Facebook.

 

00:46:57:09 - 00:46:59:17

I'm Keenan in Jackson Sims

 

00:47:00:08 - 00:47:02:15

wide and Bill in Jackson.

 

00:47:03:14 - 00:47:04:22

And now those are my

 

00:47:04:22 - 00:47:05:10

my things

 

00:47:05:10 - 00:47:07:00

and I'll come up with some

 

00:47:07:00 - 00:47:09:08

some other things out that she gives her.

 

00:47:09:08 - 00:47:09:14

Yeah.

 

00:47:09:14 - 00:47:10:17

I just have Instagram

 

00:47:10:17 - 00:47:12:08

and Facebook on Instagram

 

00:47:12:08 - 00:47:15:20

on T one 12 T 112

 

00:47:16:07 - 00:47:20:01

and on Facebook I am Teacher Jackson so

 

00:47:21:15 - 00:47:21:21

awesome.

 

00:47:21:21 - 00:47:23:02

J Yeah.

 

00:47:23:02 - 00:47:25:24

So yeah, battle rap is is

 

00:47:25:24 - 00:47:27:08

is is a love

 

00:47:27:08 - 00:47:30:00

and honestly battle rap lately has habit

 

00:47:30:00 - 00:47:31:10

has afforded the opportunity

 

00:47:31:10 - 00:47:32:18

to travel to places

 

00:47:32:18 - 00:47:35:08

that I probably would not go.

 

00:47:35:08 - 00:47:37:20

I just last month I was in Oakland

 

00:47:38:12 - 00:47:39:06

for the first time

 

00:47:39:06 - 00:47:40:02

San Francisco

 

00:47:40:02 - 00:47:41:08

and Oakland for the first time

 

00:47:41:08 - 00:47:44:03

because my boy was battling on

 

00:47:44:23 - 00:47:45:21

ultimate rat league.

 

00:47:45:21 - 00:47:47:00

And so

 

00:47:47:00 - 00:47:49:10

I literally jumped at that opportunity.

 

00:47:49:10 - 00:47:50:10

But of course

 

00:47:50:10 - 00:47:52:05

because I'm not traveling with my wife,

 

00:47:52:05 - 00:47:54:08

I got to make sure she go home.

 

00:47:54:10 - 00:47:55:10

And so

 

00:47:56:14 - 00:47:59:08

I asked if that was cool for me to

 

00:47:59:24 - 00:48:01:01

head out to Oakland.

 

00:48:01:01 - 00:48:03:02

I had a absolutely wonderful time.

 

00:48:03:11 - 00:48:05:13

But when you go for these battle rapids,

 

00:48:05:14 - 00:48:07:11

you don't really get to enjoy the city

 

00:48:07:11 - 00:48:09:20

much because, you know, but

 

00:48:09:20 - 00:48:11:16

I'm going to learn how I did

 

00:48:11:16 - 00:48:12:11

I did a little bit

 

00:48:12:11 - 00:48:14:02

more than I normally do

 

00:48:14:02 - 00:48:16:01

that time around because I realize

 

00:48:16:01 - 00:48:17:03

everything is just battle.

 

00:48:17:03 - 00:48:17:24

Everything is just battle.

 

00:48:17:24 - 00:48:18:21

I don't get to do anything

 

00:48:18:21 - 00:48:20:03

other than just be around

 

00:48:20:03 - 00:48:21:16

battling and battle rappers

 

00:48:21:16 - 00:48:22:13

when I'm in a big city.

 

00:48:22:13 - 00:48:24:17

So I carved out a bunch of time

 

00:48:24:17 - 00:48:25:01

to for me

 

00:48:25:01 - 00:48:27:18

to just walk through the city of

 

00:48:27:18 - 00:48:28:14

San Francisco.

 

00:48:28:14 - 00:48:30:08

And I and it's

 

00:48:30:08 - 00:48:31:19

those hills are no joke

 

00:48:31:19 - 00:48:33:13

like it really is.

 

00:48:33:13 - 00:48:35:20

It really is full house out there.

 

00:48:37:02 - 00:48:39:18

Anybody understand that reference?

 

00:48:39:18 - 00:48:40:07

Well,

 

00:48:40:07 - 00:48:42:13

I want to thank you both for joining

 

00:48:42:13 - 00:48:43:20

and really

 

00:48:43:20 - 00:48:44:21

sharing everything

 

00:48:44:21 - 00:48:48:07

that you shared on on the show.

 

00:48:48:07 - 00:48:49:23

You know, this has been fun, has been

 

00:48:49:23 - 00:48:50:24

definitely fun.